Today after church we had choir. During choir, an older man was sitting next to Jarom. I was on the opposite side, sitting by no one because I'm at the piano. This man casually asked Jarom if he and I were courting......or if we were married. We have lived here for 4 and a half years. We have been married that entire time. He has never known us as not married. He has talked to both me and Jarom on different occasions, it's not like we've never spoken before. Not to mention I'm six months pregnant. When Jarom told me this story, I just couldn't wrap my head around why in the world he would ask that. Then Jarom expounded and said this man commented that we act more like a courting couple when we sit in church than a married couple. We hold hands. We don't make out, lay all over each other, become permanently entwined so that there is no difference between him and me...... We hold hands. Apparently, once you get married you stop holding hands. Well...